Warning Signs
There is no one list of warning signs that will tell you if you are a victim. You are the expert. If you are in a relationship that is concerning you, some warning signs to watch for include:
Frequent loss of temper
Abuse of alcohol and/or drugs
Extreme jealousy
Expects you to spend all of your time with him or inform him of your whereabouts
Following
Threats
Physical or verbal abuse
Damage or destruction to your property
Puts you down in front of your friends
Talks about violence or is fascinated with themes of violence
Makes your family or friends feel scared or uneasy
Offers of unsolicited help
Refuses to accept "no" for an answer
Isolates you from your friends and/or family
What is Stalking? | The Law | Warning Signs | Stalkers & The Net | Facts | Effects
If you feel afraid or threatened, it is time to take action and get help.
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Disclaimer: this project is supported by Grant 98WFVX0008 awarded by the Violence Against Women Office, Office of Justice Program, United States Department of Justice (USDJ), through the Governor's Office of Criminal Justice Planning. Points of view in this document are those of the author and do not necessarily represent the official position or policies of the USDJ.
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